[Why to shout?!]

Here is an interesting story I've found today. Seems to be a true conclusion, and a good lesson for us, people!!:-)

Have a nice reading:

A master asked his disciples:

‘Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’ the disciples thought for a while, and one of them said

‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’

‘But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you? ‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’

The disciples gave him some other answers but none satisfied the master.

Finally he explained:

‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.’

Then the master asked:

‘What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small…’

And he finally said:

‘When they love each other even more, what happens?

‘They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love.

‘Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’

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[A hunter shoots a bear!!]:-)

A hunter shoots a bear!! You have to watch it!! It's SOOO funny!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

AH! YES! Follow ALL the directions that the guy is telling you!! You WILL have fun for sure!!!

Hope you've enjoyed it!:-)

[Killing us softly - Advertising image of women]

Quite an interesting video I've watched today! Here is the last version of "Killing us softly" series:

The four videos from below are parts of the full video of "Killing us softly": really interesting and can be watched by both women and men. The film presents the ideas of girls and young women as well as those of the leading authorities in the fields of psychology of women and girls, eating disorders, gender studies, violence against women, and media literacy--and focuses their ideas on practical solutions and the best tactics for reclaiming the culture that is increasing today.

Dreams!

Dreams!!! Dreams!! Dreams!!! DON'T feel GUILTY that you have them, don't feel em·bar·rassed that they live there in your heart and that they don't want to leave, even if you try so hard to "adapt" yourself to some other people's wishes that are meant to be yours, even if you are being humiliated and told "it's time to have a real life, stop wishing because you'll never have".

It's hard! Maybe you can start thinking that they might be right and you are a psy·cho that wants a silly thing that must be forgotten and erased. But it doesn't happen to forget, neither to erase!! It's not that you are not trying, it simply doesn't work! And you know that that is your path and that is where you should go next, but because of fear or intimidation or manipulation or being threaten YOU stop, but your heart doesn't: it's beating and your spirit is there too.

Somehow these "dreams" define what we are meant on this earth for, somehow they are the sparkling lights in the dark we may face and somehow they give us power and inner peace or subtle joy and confidence that no matter how hard it is now, it will be better. "Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams."

"Fight for your dreams and they will fight for you."

- Paulo Coelho

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